johnw,
In looking back I actually was exactly half and half in Brooklyn and Regular pocket hits on the night (7 & 7). I guess it just seems like more because normally I would only corss over a few times a night.
Be honest with yourself. Were you lining up to strike on the Brooklyn or were you crossing over from where you were trying to hit and carried strikes on the Brooklyn?
If a person was trying to hit the opposite pocket and was doing it with success, more power to them. If however someone was trying to hit their own pocket and missed and crossed over, that's a completely different story.
For me personally, I'll apologize for strikes where I crossed over. Again, for me it's a bad shot that where I got a lucky result. On sport patterns when I've thrown a couple in a game and managed a decent score, I'm still disappointed. There's a difference between bowling well and scoring well. I'm happier when I execute well and don't get breaks than when I execute poorly and get lucky breaks.
The lack of respect you talk about is because it's not a good shot. It's a bad shot that happened to strike.