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#112629 - 01/07/10 06:29 AM Re: One of my teammates [Re: Atochabsh]
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Erin wrote "Just make sure this is the bridge you both want to die on before you start the battle.". I like that Erin, must remember that one. That is a great little adage.I have had my glass of water, its not calming me down, but my scotch and coke is working a treat!!!

We don't have any moral police patrolling our bowling leagues, so I guess you have to use your own values and morals. Obviously you have these qualities KoukiGS. Way to go!!

If these guys made racist comments about another bowler, whilst the insult was not directed at you, you are more than entitled to be offended..These comments are not appropriate at work, in the street, shopping malls and bowling centres. Just because it has affected you indirectly, should not mean that u just do or say nothing..

Speak to your friend first, then go from there. To be honest KoukiGS, to do NOTHING is the easy option!!

You give these ar**hole guys licence to continue their offensive behaviour, if not directed at your mate, then it will be some other person down the track from your league, and then someone else later on.. It is a cycle, these guys will continue, its part of their nature/maturity/insecurity, call it what u will. Pick them up on this, and KoukiGS you will feel better about this.

Erin, if u rock the league boat, then perhaps the boat needs rocking. The league surely wouldn't condone this type of behaviour. Nor would they want other bowlers to not enjoy themselves because of a very small minority. What are the rest of the bowlers like in this league? Fair minded individuals who turn up every week to bowl and have fun.. Money should not be a consideration into your actions, nor having to restructure a season to get rid of some bad wood!!. There are things far more important than money..

Think about what kind of league you want. I know that if you were to approach these guys, and mention in a joking and friendly manner "hey guys, ease up on Mick down there, hes had 2 knee operations, and hes still bowling in pain, give him a break". Then that couldn't hurt much could it?..

Out of curiosity, what are these guys like for the most part? Are they approachable? Are they bear drink red necks, who would be more interested in shovering your head into a ball return , rather than listening to your point of view?

Look forward to hearing back
Looseleftie

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One of my teammates KoukiGS 01/06/10 12:13 AM
Re: One of my teammates mtg712 01/06/10 12:52 AM
Re: One of my teammates Domokun 01/06/10 12:58 AM
Re: One of my teammates Atochabsh 01/06/10 01:11 AM
Re: One of my teammates KoukiGS 01/06/10 01:37 AM
Re: One of my teammates Jay R. 01/06/10 01:59 AM
Re: One of my teammates Atochabsh 01/06/10 02:18 AM
Re: One of my teammates Domokun 01/06/10 10:38 AM
Re: One of my teammates 10PinGaloot 01/06/10 01:06 PM
Re: One of my teammates J.Brown 01/06/10 01:23 PM
Re: One of my teammates B-Hammer 01/06/10 01:27 PM
Re: One of my teammates Scott Gannon 01/06/10 06:51 PM
Re: One of my teammates looseleftie 01/07/10 03:10 AM
Re: One of my teammates Atochabsh 01/07/10 03:46 AM
Re: One of my teammates looseleftie 01/07/10 06:29 AM
Re: One of my teammates Tim Gerard 01/06/10 01:25 PM

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